With all the things going on in the world today, it is so easy to allow negativity to cloud our view and bring us down about life. Yes, there is misery everywhere we turn, but there is also beauty and joy, and so many things to be grateful for. We should never turn a blind eye or close ourselves off to the affairs of the world, but we do need to remember that we are meant to have joy, which means being grateful for what we have been given in this life, living the best we can, and doing what we can to make the world better by being here. Yes, there are moments when we all complain, and that is okay because we are human, but the trick is to allow ourselves that moment, then move on.
Everyone's circumstances are different and some of us are far worse off than others, but there are people who possess little and still smile each day simply because they are alive. True, I've never walked in anyone's shoes but my own, but I have worn many different pairs of shoes in my life. Some have been pretty comfortable and some have hurt like nobody's business, but I've learned something about myself while wearing every pair, and I wouldn't trade those experiences for anything, because each was a different lesson in learning to be happy while reaching to attain something more.
Thinking outward brings inner joy. And therein lies true happiness.
Here are a few neat little quotes on finding joy.
The greater part of our
happiness or misery depends on our dispositions, and not on our
circumstances. We carry the seeds of the one or the other about with us
in our minds wherever we go. --Martha Washington
We either make ourselves happy or miserable. The amount of work is the same.--Carlos Castaneda
Resolve to keep happy and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties.--Helen Keller
To get up each morning with
the resolve to be happy…is to set our own conditions to the events of
each day. To do this is to condition circumstances instead of being
conditioned by them.--Ralph Waldo Emerson
Suggested Reading
Book: My Lady Coward
Author: Jaimey Grant
About the Book
"My Lady Coward" debuted as a serial romance, each installment posted
somewhere online as it was written. "My Lady Coward: An Episodic Regency
Romance" is a compilation of those ten installments. They have not been
changed from the original postings, merely formatted into one file for
those who desire to have the whole story in one convenient place.
A lady knows her place, no matter what...
With
Maria's vows came a title and security. At her wedding she gained a
position amongst Society's elite. With her marriage Maria acquired
everything a young woman could possibly desire.
Except love.
Going
about her day-to-day activities, all Maria wants is Richard's love, the
attentions he lavishes upon his mistress. But can she set aside her
ladylike training long enough to tell him?